Monday, 26 September 2011

Amazing + Grace = Friends

Again another hardly to sleep night, where I was sitting in front of my laptop again the usual night life of Teoh...Every night she would be sitting in front, and thinking of any topics to write on / blog on...In fact, tonight, again, she was about to blog about someone in her life, that means so much to her..These someone, mostly appear in large group of people, and they were part of the supplements in life...
Her friends are the topic that she was about to lay on and think...Now, only this night, where she had a simple conversation with her friends, mentally, she was expressing her own feelings towards her friends in her dreams right now at this moment...
I never really sit down and think of my friends, and she was actually just refresh her friends list...2 days back, she was talking to one of her friend, and this friend divide friend into 3 adorable categories, which was close, not close and super not close...Where she kind of disagree with it, but to another point she agrees with it...
And on the second thought, it was not wrong to divide it like that, but it's just not fair to certain friends...I would like to start with the 1st to the last...And here it goes:
Amazing + Grace = Friends...
Close friends : Since mentioned close, you can talk whatever you want and no secrets in between and mostly secrets will be safer than inside a safe box...We know each other like the back of the your own hands, and they will love you the way who you are, need no pretends nor mask to hide yourself behind...It was just being you yourself in front of them, and they would love the old you...
Not Close friends : I can't really recall back on how he categorize this, but from mine point, it was something like this ;  where this category of friends, are friends that would only do what is half of close friends, which they will help you only when they can and they are able to do so...And they are mostly to be friends are suitable for having fun,  doing mind-blowing stuffs together with you but not to the extend...They were still your friends, but just the quarter / half of close friends...They will help you...
Super not close friends : He categorize it very adorable this time, mostly was Hi and Bye type of it when they met each other, and they were usually always busy with something when they noticed each other around, where only met twice or third time in a week...They were still your friends, but half / quarter of not close friends, and they were certain times are being to real...But, real is good, it helps to cultivate the understanding of true world outside...It was a dramatic world...
朋友可以很简单,也可以很复杂。如果要交朋友,首先要把自己变成愿意叫朋友的立场。当你在埋怨没有朋友的同时,也要想一想,自己是否是一个称职的朋友。Friends can be difficult, and can be simple...If you want to have friends, you must first be one of it, and to moment you complaint your surrounding without any friends ; I urged you to recall were you a good friend to your peers or not...Do not ask how much your friends can contribute to you, ask how much you can give to your friend...
This is a give and take, not touch and go...Its not fast lane, but slow lane with patience and time to build a strong friendship...Quarrels may occur, cold war may trigger, but this was life and friends are all about, just to sit beside each other even though it was such a simple action to commit...
朋友一生一起走,那些日子不再有,一句话,一辈子,一生情,一杯酒...
Simple friendship starts with give and concern, and the most important spice is LOVE and TRUST...Trust them, and love them...Let them know that no matter what happens, you were always there for them...
There might be 3 categories of friends, but, not really happen in my life...As long as they called, they needed me, I will help...Hi and Bye type was simple, as least there's a Hi and Bye, which that already gave me a message to remind me, friends can be categorize, but, as least there is a common word, which was FRIEND...
Dear friends, no matter how many of you read this message, but, I just want to say, thanks for being my friend in my life, and it was truly an amazing grace to have friends caring for you and love you the way you are, so, dear friends, words are not strong enough to express my love and loyalty to all of you...But, I do love you all the way you all are, Hi and Bye might be our least conversation, but, it was our friendship that made us going along our life, and I truly appreciate what friends are for...And, it was truly a grace in my life, which was a gift that each humans have equally = friends...

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